which the penis enters the vagina
It might also be a good idea to talk together about each of your motivations in sex, especially about mutual pleasure. Are you both invested as deeply in your partner experiencing pleasure as you are in your own? When one or both of you ONLY really wants pleasure for yourself, are those times you're choosing masturbation, which is about self pleasure, rather than sex together, which is supposed to be about mutual pleasure?Looking at both of your lists as a whole, and after those other discussions, how are you each feeling about this relationship as a sexual relationship? Does it seem like it's one that's likely to meet BOTH your needs or not? Do the two people represented on those pages look like a sexual match or a mismatch? For you, does looking at his list give you feelings of hope and possibility or feelings of dread or disappointment? How about the talks you had around the list: did they seem more fruitful and leave you feeling better than the talks in the past, or are